Bush Divorce Rumors

So I read a rumor online recently that speculated that the President and the first lady would be getting a divorce after his term is over. On YAHOO answers a lot of people had voiced their opinions on this matter and one person stated this

"First off if ( and this is a big if) they are having marital problems it is not my business. Not yours either. Secondly if they were to get divorced it would not be the end of the world. It would not change my opinion of him or of Laura. It also would have no effect on how I feel about his presidency. I would feel very sorry for both of them as divorce is a very painful thing especially in a long term marriage. Sure makes me glad I don't read the tabloids."

While I agree many things are not our business, if it is not our business why were all these same people up in arms when Bill Clinton was getting blow jobs from Lewinski? Why does Bush get to pass a law about homosexual rights to marry because of his beliefs in the "sanctity of marriage"? I know rumors are just that, rumors. But when in America are we going to look at the laws and rule out the grays? The law should either be black or white, right or wrong. How does the separation of church and state=we get to say who can love who and how and why because some religion says we can or can't? Why can Pamela Anderson get married and divorced and subject her children to a multitude of trashy dads and not be penalized? Is that not disrespecting the sanctity of marriage? And don't even get me started on Britney Spears 16 year old sister getting knocked up.

It's late and this probably doesn't make too much sense, but sometimes just wonder where we will be in 20 years?